I am out of order! All those “rules” I was taught as a child and have tried to pass on to my child? Gone. I am questioning the laws of parenting. Our brains are wired to put all stimuli we experience into an order we can understand, process and memorize. If we are taught from childhood that there is a certain order to the way things are done, it is ingrained in our memory, and we subconsciously or consciously behave in the way we were taught. In turn, we teach that order to our children.